My recent venture
into living my life the way I want to, have made me meet other side some of my
female and male friends.. some were shocking... some not so much, because I was
aware of their nature.
According to these
friends they think I have just come out of my shell. Technically they haven't
known me long enough to come to that conclusion. I had always been this out
going, but life happens and you don't know who you should open up to any more.
Everything becomes a question mark at that point. To answer my own questions I
had to start living again... so here I am :-)
Coming back to the
friends, one friend confronted she has the same wishes as I do. I asked what
they were, she replied, tattoo, motorcycle, dance etc she gave a huge list. I
had to ask what stopped her, because till this point I only know this person as
8-5 working woman, talks about her kid's education and cooking dinner, all of
sudden this topic opened up and she lit up like 1000watts bulb when talking
about it. Technically no one stopped her, she had assumed the age for those
have par, then she thought her parents won't approve off and now she assumes
her husband will be furious. My question was oh so it's not your life?
I agree every part
of our life is team work… go to school you are put in group projects, work of
course you have teams and team leads to deal with, come home and the team of
family have you by the hair. Therefore, with run of the life everyone loses one
self.
I really envy the
singles and unmarried in life, because they are at a point where they don’t
have answer to anyone yet (KIDS being the big word here). They can truly choose to live or just stay alive.
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